1. Ah...but if disappointment comes to even those who don't hope, why attempt the futile task of trying to keep disappointment out of your life? Why not just fling open the door? Either it will enter or it won't...keeping the door shut won't keep it out, maybe opening it wide won't guarantee it's entry.Ringorocks wrote:1. One shouldn't run away from things. But in my opinion, having high hopes to something is opening a door to disappointment.
2. This, to me, is self inflictment of psychological pain.
3. Hoping for a PF reunion of course isn't very severe, but the chance of disappointment in that area has always been bigger than the hopes actually coming true.
4. Hopes are good. Unless one exclusively hopes and doesn't expect the worst. So.. hope for the best and expect the worst, basically.
2. Knowingly opening yourself to disappointment is not inflicting psychological pain on oneself, as I see it (but this could just be me,)...the trick is to NOT place too much importance upon what it is that you hope to see.
This may sound insane, but it is possible to appreciate a thing, event, etc. without really forming an attachment to it. It is the attachment that is the source of disappointment when something that one wishes for fails to occur.
So...how does one hope for something without forming an attachment that will leave one open to disappointment?
That takes a little bit of work and I'm afraid I'd have to hold a seminar and charge people money in order to talk about it in further detail
However, if you order my nine dvd set now, I'll include a free eggbeater.
3. I agree with this statement since they've been inactive for 12 years now. Oddly enough, this should actually lower one's disappointment when they continue to fail to do anything since we should now be used to the idea that they're not going to do anything.
4. I have always lived by this statement...it seems to be to be the sanest way to live.